tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18252373.post4638314042448357237..comments2023-10-07T04:51:39.905-06:00Comments on the things i know: finding my spotluhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07623389405478450863noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18252373.post-70661852089688284382008-05-23T00:42:00.000-06:002008-05-23T00:42:00.000-06:00yay, loving the comments. thanks peeps!yay, loving the comments. thanks peeps!luhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07623389405478450863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18252373.post-77226156740908852972008-05-22T05:55:00.000-06:002008-05-22T05:55:00.000-06:00There is one problem with focusing on what we are ...There is one problem with focusing on what we are good at- sometimes we don't necessarily like what we are good at and really love something we are not so good at. But at the same time, sometimes we have to do what works and find a way to like what we do.o <BR/><BR/>I too have been thinking a lot lately about what my "spot" may be and what might be coming up next. It is both terrifying and exciting at the same time.<BR/><BR/>I agree that there is something about "passion" that has gone horribly wrong. Must we be passionate about everything we do? I'm sure not passionate about doing dishes, but they have to be done every day. So I guess life ISN'T too short to do things we don't feel passionate about.<BR/><BR/>This is one of the most disjointed comments EVER. But I guess what I'm trying to say is that I think we all are trying to find our spot under the covers...and that spot isn't static. What might be great for 4 years, might not be the best spot for the 5 years after that- but it did prepare you for that next perfect spot...<BR/><BR/>ahhh...ramblings before coffee. love it.<BR/><BR/>I hope you enjoy your last little bit in Kenya.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18252373.post-29044206724363401472008-05-21T08:41:00.000-06:002008-05-21T08:41:00.000-06:00thanks for the notes. i totally agree that we sho...thanks for the notes. i totally agree that we should focus on what we are good at and have been trying to do that lately. i would like to think that writing is one of them! or at least it comes easily and that is something.<BR/><BR/>i might try and stop worrying about not being passionate enough. i am probably more principled than necessary anyway!luhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07623389405478450863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18252373.post-78663395623471561002008-05-20T11:53:00.000-06:002008-05-20T11:53:00.000-06:00Lu, I trust that - over time - you will, indeed, f...Lu, I trust that - over time - you will, indeed, find your "spot!" I think you've expressed the ambivalence and uncertainty of the gifted, caring but humble* among us quite well.<BR/><BR/>*By the way, I mean true humility and not hubris.La Cabeza Grandehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316752959658920142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18252373.post-10004571892520427872008-05-20T10:23:00.000-06:002008-05-20T10:23:00.000-06:00This may not be your problem, but just in case . ....This may not be your problem, but just in case . . .<BR/>For much too long I felt that if something came too easily, was second nature, then it didn't count. I should be taking classes in harder subjects that would challenge me. If I did (in school or professionally) what came naturally, or easily, that was somehow cheating.<BR/>I dislike the current use of the term "passionate," and "follow your bliss" is close behind.<BR/>The now-to-me-obvious thing that somebody should have told me (well, actually, just telling me would almost certainly not have accomplished much; I would have taken some heavy duty convincing) is that you should follow your abilities--the interests and skills that you are already good at, and take for granted, and are mildly astonished that all other people aren't equally good at.<BR/>(If this thought doesn't ring a bell, just disregard it. Obviously I am talking about me, but, if you are lucky, not about you.)<BR/>AnneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com